What if no explanation or justification were needed?

What if you could wear a shirt because you like it?

Work somewhere because you like it?

Feeling physically tired is expected given the lives that many of us lead. Most of don’t rest adequately.

The more we do the more we need to rest.

Attention is our most valuable resource something Dr. Shauna Shapiro, a mentor of mine, says often.

Choose what you want to pay attention to.

Are you paying attention to what’s most important to you?

Rumination leads to stress, lack of sleep, and chronic cortisol release.

Making thoughtful decisions with the skills and knowledge we have at that time is the best we can offer.

We are trained in medicine to think that overthinking is valuable.

Just in case we might not have thought of something, we should think and worry more.

To make sure we didn’t miss anything inadvertently.

What if the way others are doing it, isn’t the best way for you?

What if the thing bothering you doesn’t have to change for you to feel better?

What if it or they is offering exactly what you “need” in this moment.

As adults we also do this. We look for others to “clap for us in life” to validate that we did enough or a “good job.” The clapping just looks different and is usually less joyous.

Holidays, especially when spent with young adults, first grandchildren and newly blended families from different cultures are the epitome of “complicated dynamics.”

Embracing the season you are in is commiting to living in alignment and a choice to not resist reality or swim against the current.

Doors do not close because we have fallen short or made a mistake. Very often they close because something within us declares unmistakably that we are destined and ready for something else.

Approving of yourself, as you are, costs nothing and offers incredible value.

It is not a pass, it's gifting yourself energy, momentum, positivity, and hope.

Busy keeps us from being present. It keeps us distracted from the discomfort. Being chronically busy doesn’t feel good in the long run.

What if you were patient, trusting, self-assured, hopeful, self-compassionate, and curious.

Coaching helps you navigate uncertainty, unexpected outcomes, our broken medical system, and unreasonable performance expectations, with grace, compassion, and strategy.

The key to transitioning well is to believe that the one you become will catch you.